my first mommy tag

Posted in All about Mia, Family Matters, Tag you're it! on Jan 29, 2008

vannie tagged me to write down top 5 things I want my child to know before he grows up. Or more specifically, top 5 values I should impart to my child to make him be a better person. and these are:

  • Faith in God - i appreciate how my own parents brought me and my brothers up, and that is with fear in God. i wouldn’t want it any other way with Mia
  • Great things start from small beginnings - the old English hound dog Sir Francis Drake couldn’t have put it any better. i want mia to learn that for her to make it big someday, she has to learn all the necessary steps to know what it’s like to start at the bottom. i want her to appreciate the kind of hard work her own lolo put in just to give us a comfortable life.
  • Respect - same with vannie, i want Mia to have utmost respect to her elders, authorities (save for when it becomes abusive, in which case value #4 will apply), and everyone else for that matter. we were raised to have an open mind and to never be judgemental on people.
  • Have solid principles to stand on - and be prepared to fight for them. in this kind of world where principles almost mean nothing yet having none equals self-destruction, we can never be too careful.
  • Know how to work your charm - in a lady-like and respectful manner, of course! shempre, i want Mia to be a lady always, and not just be a toughie :)

it’s so funny that while i was growing up as a teenager, i had so much angst that i hated that my parents were so strict with me, not knowing that when i become a mom myself i wouldn’t want it any other way for my own kid. but of course, there are things that i want to change too. but that’ll come. God will help me out.

so now i’m tagging mommy meeya, mommy lizzz, mommy kelly, mommy jayme, and daddy kiko!

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10 Responses to “ my first mommy tag ”

  1. # 1 Vannie Says:

    wow, that was fast! thanks for doin this dear:)

    Vannie’s last blog post..5 Things I Want My Kids To Know Before They Grow Up

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  2. # 2 Kelly Says:

    i’ll try my best to do this asap! :D
    Kelly’s last blog post..And My First Purchases From My Earnings Are…

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  3. # 3 kengkay Says:

    great list you have here :D
    kengkay’s last blog post..Pinoy Care Giver

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  4. # 4 Lizzz Says:

    THanks for the tag sis! nag enjoy ako mag sagot! Have a nice day!

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  5. # 5 Abby Copuyoc Says:

    Hey Irisss! Got your comment on my blog. Grrreat blog! I’m impressed! Puwede bang magtanong — how did you install shelfari on your blog? Wordpress din ang blog ko, pero for some reason, ayaw mag-install ng shelfari.

    Can’t believe that you’re a mom! Didn’t even know. You got pretty meaty and interesting posts. Let’s meet up when I get to Manila ha? I’m arriving Feb 4. See ya soon!

    Abby Copuyoc’s last blog post..Hip Hop and You Don’t Stop

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  6. # 6 ris Says:

    abby!!! thanks :) i’ll answer your question on your blog.

    i’ll see you soon! email me when you’re here na ha(iris14 at gmail) and maybe i’ll bring ralphie boy along. wala na sa GMA ang lolo mo, working na daw sa “family business”. hahaha :)

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  8. # 8 Meeya Says:

    done! :D naupod utak ko sa pag-iisip, ris! pero ok lang, at least i got the “lessons” down in writing, mas madali gawing reference hehehe. thanks!

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  9. # 9 ris Says:

    meeya - hehe galing! mukhang madami kang naipong tag eh :)

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